Totally agree with you Tiffany Sun. Of course, who wouldn’t want to build followers? But the harder you try the less it works. Sometimes, just go with the flow. As the great Indian seer Sri Ramakrishna Paramahansa said, “If the flower blooms, the butterflies are going to come anyway”.
It’s blooming of the flowers, that’s the difficult part.
The more relaxed and natural is it, the better.